In a significant move that challenges traditional gender roles within Indian households, the Supreme Court of India on Friday observed that a wife’s refusal to perform household chores like cooking does not constitute “cruelty” for seeking a divorce. Presiding over a matrimonial dispute, Justice Sandeep Mehta remarked, “You are not marrying a maid; you are marrying a life partner.”

The apex court emphasized that in the modern era, the burden of domestic labor should not fall solely on the woman. Justice Vikram Nath noted that times have changed, and husbands must also contribute to cooking and laundry. The case involves a couple married since 2017, who have an 8-year-old son. The husband had moved the court alleging that his wife’s behavior changed shortly after marriage, claiming she used foul language and refused to cook for his parents.

Conversely, the wife alleged that she was subjected to dowry demands and harassment. While the Family Court initially granted the divorce on grounds of cruelty, the High Court overturned the decision, leading the husband to appeal to the Supreme Court. The top court’s oral observations highlight a progressive shift in legal interpretations of “marital obligations,” viewing marriage as a partnership of equals rather than a master-servant dynamic. The bench has directed both parties to appear in person for the next hearing to explore further legal remedies.